Due to the concept of PERFECTIONISM,
peeps, you should upgrade yourself now ;)
improve in both inner state and appearance.
Firstly, talk about the INNER STATE.
You should have a good personality
as people with good personality often be pleasant and comfortable to be with.
There are some approaches had to be done in order to build up good personality.
1.) Be a knowledgeable person.
Basically, don't be ignorant to things around you.
Besides, broaden your horizon through reading and chatting.
Hence, chatting with elder is encouraged.
With these knowledge, you're then able to exchange ideas with your friends.
Unlike those who really like growing grass in their brains.
In chinese, we called that "脑大生草" or “草包”。
It's interesting to talk with someone that has unique ideas
rather than those who keep repeating the same content.
2.) Have a good attitude.
Logically, having a good attitude is more favourable.
Good manner towards elders, especially parents is necessary.
Even though you peer can't stand bad mannered people,
how can your parents that raise you accept that?
Sometimes, we don't know our attitude accidentally hurt them,
but avoid shouting and yelling at them.
When you're disagree with them, try not to argue with them at that moment.
It is better to tell them how you feel and what you think after that.
They can be more understand you therefore this is indeed a better way of solving disagreement.
It's so stupid to argue with them and eventually you will LOSE
due to one's pride.
3.) Be a good listener.
No matter whether you have a solution to cope with your friend's problem,
just listen to them when they meet some difficulties.
Accompany them quietly.
DO NOT BE A SPEAKER who reveal everything to the whole world.
It's good to be reliable.
4.) Be more cheerful and humorous.
Most people prefer to accompany people that is fun, can make them laugh.
So, don't be gloomy.
Appearance is not ALL for a woman yet it's still a BIG proportion for woman.
Always keep yourself tidy and clean.
Be to or not to be pretty is your choice as long as you have a healthy image.
but it would be better if you know how to make up :)
2 comments:
walao, wat a powerful post!!!
i've seen the shirt before =D
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