I do overthink in these two days,
thinking of my ability, efficiency, personality, and so on.
I should be isolated for coming few days,
to sort out some complicated stuff in my mind.
I admire people who can speak, make sense, with strong general knowledge.
I tend to view a person more from the inner state now,
maybe being more matured now, at the age of 19.
Flaws can be seen easily,in general.
You need some time to see one's good side.
On the other hand, when you're able to a person's good side at the first sight,
you need to tolerate those flaws discovered after some time.
No matter how is a person carry out himself/herself,
be more approaching and know him/her more in-depth before you judge.
Judge a book from its cover might consequently lead to some negative effects mainly misunderstanding.
Understand and view a person from good side is a good practice.
By then, we're able to be optimistic.
To others, be more tolerant,
To ourselves, be strict!
IMPROVE IMPROVE IMPROVE
Out of topic question:
Being slightly rude,
which type of spouse would you choose in the future?
dumb but kind people
or
smart but rude people?
It's just an simulated situation anyway, but do think about this.